The Calm Before the New Year

This holiday break, we’d love to invite you on a gentle adventure into regulation with your little ones — supporting them to unwind, slow down, reflect, and take small, meaningful steps toward building awareness of how they can self-regulate.

Teaching children how to regulate is a learning journey in itself. So, before we go any further, let’s pause and ask; what does regulation actually mean?

To start, children aren’t meant to be perfectly regulated. They are learning and growing while they are experiencing the world for the very first time. Part of this process are big emotions, strong reactions and quick responses, and they are all completely normal.

Children can, gently and over time, learn to notice what’s happening inside them. They start to recognize why certain feelings show up, and that they have options in how they respond. Regulation creates space. Space to pause, to reflect, and to feel supported while emotions move through them.

When children are given these tools early on, they’re better equipped to navigate challenges as they grow. They learn to move through emotions with awareness.

This holiday season offers a beautiful opportunity to slow down together, to nurture your child’s inner world and gently build the foundations for regulation, connection and resilience.

Invitation to Notice

A disposable film camera to document the holiday season

A disposable film camera can be a beautiful way to encourage presence - allowing your child to capture the holiday season as they see it, one moment at a time. Instead of letting them rapid-fire photos on a phone with zero intention, teach them that moments have weight. With film, every shot matters. Find the right light, timing and frame, before they commit to that ‘click’. Help them see that each moment hides a little magic if you slow down enough to notice it.

10 Things to Love

Take turns listing 10 things you like about yourself

Take turns sharing a 10 things you appreciate about yourselves. It might feel simple, but these moments help children notice their strengths alongside their growing awareness of challenges. You could write them down together and place them somewhere familiar, like near a mirror; to serve as a quiet reminder of what’s already there. When children learn to recognise their own qualities early on, they carry a steadier sense of self as they grow.

A Sense of Belonging

Make your child feel included in preparing the festivities

Invite your child to be part of preparing the festivities in simple, everyday ways. Helping to choose how to set the table, stir a bowl, decorate - gives children a quiet sense of autonomy, purpose and connection.

Feeling included reminds them that they matter and that their contributions are valued. Even when things aren’t perfect, these moments help children feel seen and part of something shared.

A Year In Reflection

2025 Wrapped

Take some time together to wander through the highlights of the past year. Ask open-ended questions: what stood out? What surprised them? What brought them joy? But also, what felt challenging? Invite your child to name both lighter and darker moments, and listen closely, holding space without trying to fix anything.

Then, gently guide the reflection toward gratitude, not to gloss over difficulties, but to help them notice the small things that carry meaning and resilience. Learning to pause, reflect and appreciate even amidst challenges is a quiet skill that will serve them well as they grow.

Winter Stories by the Fire

Fire > Screens

Build a small bonfire together and settle in for stories. Share a few from your own childhood and invite your child to tell theirs. Let there be pauses and quiet moments between, silence is part of the magic as you wind down together, watching the gentle movement of the flames.

Stories help us make sense of life, connect with each other and carry memories that last far longer than anything on a screen.

And don’t forget to ask other family members, their stories might hold little treasures waiting to be discovered too.

Counting Sheep Club

The holidays look cozy from the outside.
Inside most homes, they’re loud, full, and fast.

Kids feel it too.
More people, more plans,
more sugar, more stimulation,
less space to land.

We’ve been quietly working on something to counter that. Over the past months we’ve been cooking up a system around storytelling, regulation, and connection.

Early 2026 is when we properly kick things into gear.

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Happy Holidays,

Rich